Helgi H\u00f3season eyddi s\u00ed\u00f0ari hluta \u00e6vi sinnar \u00ed a\u00f0 f\u00e1 sk\u00edrn s\u00edna afnumda. Afsk\u00edrnarhugtaki\u00f0 hefur \u00e1 s\u00ed\u00f0ustu \u00e1rum fundi\u00f0 s\u00e9r farveg b\u00e6\u00f0i \u00ed Bretlandi og Frakklandi og vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 kirkjunnar hafa virst h\u00e1lf f\u00e1lmkennd og \u00f3markviss, enda snertir krafan um afsk\u00edrn vi\u00f0 grundvallar\u00fe\u00e1ttum \u00ed Gu\u00f0smynd \u00feeirra sem a\u00f0hyllast barnask\u00edrn.<\/p>\n
Sk\u00edrnin er gj\u00f6rningur Gu\u00f0s, sem \u00e1 s\u00e9r sta\u00f0 me\u00f0 s\u00fdnilegum h\u00e6tti \u00ed sakramenti kirkjunnar. Gu\u00f0 tekur vi\u00f0komandi sk\u00edrnar\u00feega a\u00f0 s\u00e9r og sleppir ekki aftur. Eins og segir \u00ed sp\u00e1d\u00f3msb\u00f3k Jesaja: \u201eHvort f\u00e6r kona gleymt brj\u00f3stbarni s\u00ednu a\u00f0 h\u00fan miskunni eigi l\u00edfsafkv\u00e6mi s\u00ednu? Og \u00fe\u00f3 a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r g\u00e6tu gleymt \u00fe\u00e1 gleymi \u00e9g \u00fe\u00e9r samt ekki. \u00c9g hef rist \u00feig \u00ed l\u00f3fa m\u00e9r,…\u201c<\/p>\n
Engin tr\u00faarleg stofnun getur teki\u00f0 \u00feetta lofor\u00f0 Gu\u00f0s \u00ed burtu e\u00f0a \u00f3gilt \u00fea\u00f0. A\u00f0 fjarl\u00e6gja \u00fea\u00f0 \u00far kirkjub\u00f3kum e\u00f0a opinberum g\u00f6gnum a\u00f0 lofor\u00f0 Gu\u00f0s hafi veri\u00f0 birt me\u00f0 s\u00fdnilegum h\u00e6tti gagnvart barni er auglj\u00f3slega s\u00f6guf\u00f6lsun og markleysi. En hva\u00f0 er \u00fe\u00e1 til r\u00e1\u00f0a?<\/p>\n
Anna\u00f0 vandam\u00e1l s\u00ed\u00f0ari \u00e1ra tengt sk\u00edrninni felst \u00ed spurningunni um foreldrar\u00e9ttinn, s\u00e9r \u00ed lagi \u00fear sem foreldra greinir \u00e1 um sk\u00edrnina. Hva\u00f0 gerist ef anna\u00f0 foreldra hafnar sk\u00edrninni og k\u00e6rir sig ekki um a\u00f0 gj\u00f6rningur Gu\u00f0s eigi s\u00e9r sta\u00f0 \u00e1 s\u00fdnilegan h\u00e1tt? Hva\u00f0a r\u00e9tt hefur barni\u00f0 og hitt foreldri\u00f0? Spurningin sem vi\u00f0 st\u00f6ndum frammi fyrir er kannski fyrst og fremst, er Gu\u00f0 h\u00e1\u00f0ur hinu s\u00fdnilega til a\u00f0 rista barni\u00f0 \u00ed l\u00f3fa s\u00e9r?<\/p>\n
Vandi barnask\u00edrnarinnar er margv\u00edslegur og auknar \u00e1herslur \u00e1 r\u00e9ttindi barna og mannr\u00e9ttindi almennt, kalla \u00e1 n\u00fdjar spurningar sem vi\u00f0 \u00feurfum a\u00f0 svara gu\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0ilega. N\u00fdjar \u00e1herslur \u00ed r\u00e9ttindam\u00e1lum barna hafa kalla\u00f0 eftir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 b\u00f6rn eigi og megi hafa \u00e1hrif \u00e1 \u00e1kvar\u00f0anir sem snerta \u00feau me\u00f0 beinum h\u00e6tti, \u00ed samr\u00e6mi vi\u00f0 \u00feroska og vitsmuni s\u00edna. Hva\u00f0 merkja sl\u00edkar \u00e1herslur ef sj\u00f6 \u00e1ra barn fer fram \u00e1 a\u00f0 taka sk\u00edrn gegn vilja foreldris\/foreldra. En ef barni\u00f0 3ja \u00e1ra e\u00f0a 16 \u00e1ra? Me\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0rum or\u00f0um, hven\u00e6r er barn fullgildur einstaklingur me\u00f0 eigin vilja \u00ed skilningi kirkjunnar og ekki s\u00ed\u00f0ur og kannski \u00f6llu fremur, hven\u00e6r hefur barn \u00f6\u00f0last \u00feroska til a\u00f0 taka \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un um a\u00f0 taka \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed ath\u00f6fn sem snertir Gu\u00f0svitund a\u00f0 mati yfirvalda?<\/p>\n
\u00cd tengslum vi\u00f0 veraldlega kr\u00f6fu um sam\u00feykki sk\u00edrnar\u00feega vakna l\u00edka gu\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0ilegar spurningar um n\u00e1\u00f0arverk Gu\u00f0s \u00ed sk\u00edrninni, \u00feann grundvallar\u00fe\u00e1tt barnask\u00edrnarskilningsins a\u00f0 gj\u00f6f Gu\u00f0s s\u00e9 \u00e1n skilyr\u00f0a. Ef sk\u00edrnarath\u00f6fnin, birtingarmynd lofor\u00f0s Gu\u00f0s, ver\u00f0ur ekki framkv\u00e6md \u00e1n sam\u00feykkis sk\u00edrnar\u00feega, hefur ath\u00f6fnin veri\u00f0 a\u00f0greind fr\u00e1 n\u00e1\u00f0argj\u00f6finni sem er gefin skilyr\u00f0islaust. Me\u00f0 sl\u00edkri a\u00f0greiningu er gu\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0ileg merking barnask\u00edrnarathafnarinnar brostin, e\u00f0a hva\u00f0?<\/p>\n
\u00deessu tengt vakna upp spurningar hva\u00f0 gerist ef kirkjan tekur \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un um sk\u00edrn \u00e1 barni, \u00f3afturkr\u00e6fa \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un, sem s\u00ed\u00f0an reynist brot \u00e1 gildandi l\u00f6gum e\u00f0a \u00ed misr\u00e6mi vi\u00f0 alsherjar reglu (hva\u00f0 sem \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir). Getur kirkja Krists be\u00f0ist velvir\u00f0ingar\/afs\u00f6kunar\/fyrirgefningar \u00e1 gj\u00f6r\u00f0um s\u00ednum ef um sakramenti er a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a? Ef svari\u00f0 er j\u00e1, hva\u00f0 getur falist \u00ed sl\u00edkri afs\u00f6kunarbei\u00f0ni og hva\u00f0 ekki? Og burts\u00e9\u00f0 fr\u00e1 afs\u00f6kunarbei\u00f0ni, er m\u00f6gulegt a\u00f0 \u00f3gilda \u00fea\u00f0 sem gert hefur veri\u00f0?<\/p>\n
Kirkjan stendur frammi fyrir \u00feessum spurningum \u00ed dag. Helgi H\u00f3season var \u00e1 undan samt\u00ed\u00f0 sinni. T\u00edmi Helga er a\u00f0 renna upp \u00ed Frakklandi \u00ed uppgj\u00f6ri vi\u00f0 r\u00f3mversk-kat\u00f3lsku kirkjuna \u00fear og \u00ed Bretlandi, \u00fear sem enska biskupakirkjan leitast vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 r\u00e9ttl\u00e6ta tilveru s\u00edna me\u00f0 fj\u00f6lda sk\u00edr\u00f0ra og fj\u00f6ldi sk\u00edr\u00f0ra leitast vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 hafna sk\u00edrn sinni.<\/p>\n
Spurningarnar sem vi\u00f0 gl\u00edmum vi\u00f0 \u00ed heimi s\u00ed\u00f0-kristind\u00f3msins eru margar og fl\u00f3knar. Framt\u00ed\u00f0 kirkjunnar sn\u00fdst um a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r af hei\u00f0arleika og hreinskilni. Vi\u00f0 \u00feurfum a\u00f0 vi\u00f0urkenna a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 getum \u00e1 stundum lent \u00ed klemmu \u00fear sem foreldrar\u00e9ttur og barnar\u00e9ttur fara ekki saman. Vi\u00f0 \u00feurfum a\u00f0 horfast \u00ed augu vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 sumt ver\u00f0ur ekki aftur teki\u00f0. Um lei\u00f0 \u00feurfum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 vi\u00f0urkenna a\u00f0 sumir k\u00e6ra sig ekki um n\u00e1\u00f0 Gu\u00f0s og kirkjan \u00fearf a\u00f0 finna lei\u00f0 til a\u00f0 vi\u00f0urkenna \u00fe\u00e1 tilfinningu og sko\u00f0un ef eftir \u00fev\u00ed er leita\u00f0.<\/p>\n
Vi\u00f0 \u00feurfum a\u00f0 skilja a\u00f0 kirkjunni getur or\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00e1 mist\u00f6k, \u00fev\u00ed kirkjan er ekki einv\u00f6r\u00f0ungu s\u00fa birtingarmynd Gu\u00f0s r\u00edkisins sem vi\u00f0 j\u00e1tum \u00ed j\u00e1tningunum heldur ekki s\u00ed\u00f0ur mannleg stofnun.<\/p>\n
Fyrst og fremst hlj\u00f3tum vi\u00f0 samt sem \u00e1\u00f0ur a\u00f0 hlusta. Hlusta \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 sem hafna n\u00e1\u00f0 Gu\u00f0s, en kalla \u00e1 sama t\u00edma eftir vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0um kirkjunnar vi\u00f0 hugsunum s\u00ednum og \u00f3\u00e1n\u00e6gju. Vi\u00f0 \u00feurfum a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 kirkjunni ber a\u00f0 l\u00edta \u00e1 gagnr\u00fdnendur tr\u00faarinnar sem Gu\u00f0s d\u00fdrm\u00e6tu sk\u00f6pun ekki s\u00ed\u00f0ur en \u00feau sem sitja stillt og pr\u00fa\u00f0 \u00ed kirkjubekkjunum \u00e1 sunnud\u00f6gum.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Helgi H\u00f3season eyddi s\u00ed\u00f0ari hluta \u00e6vi sinnar \u00ed a\u00f0 f\u00e1 sk\u00edrn s\u00edna afnumda. Afsk\u00edrnarhugtaki\u00f0 hefur \u00e1 s\u00ed\u00f0ustu \u00e1rum fundi\u00f0 s\u00e9r farveg b\u00e6\u00f0i \u00ed Bretlandi og Frakklandi og vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 kirkjunnar hafa virst h\u00e1lf f\u00e1lmkennd og \u00f3markviss, enda snertir krafan um afsk\u00edrn vi\u00f0 grundvallar\u00fe\u00e1ttum \u00ed Gu\u00f0smynd \u00feeirra sem a\u00f0hyllast barnask\u00edrn.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wds_primary_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[11,89,99,112,126,154],"class_list":["post-3891","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-islenska","tag-atheists","tag-injustice","tag-listening","tag-parents","tag-relationship","tag-theology"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3891","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3891"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3891\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3891"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3891"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3891"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}