{"id":3722,"date":"2011-10-31T13:01:06","date_gmt":"2011-10-31T13:01:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ispeculate.wpmudev.host\/main\/?p=3722"},"modified":"2011-10-31T13:01:06","modified_gmt":"2011-10-31T13:01:06","slug":"hamfarir-reidi-hatur-og-nad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/2011\/10\/31\/hamfarir-reidi-hatur-og-nad\/","title":{"rendered":"Hamfarir, rei\u00f0i, hatur og n\u00e1\u00f0"},"content":{"rendered":"

Flutt \u00e1 fundi AD KFUM fimmtudaginn 20. okt\u00f3ber. Fundarefni \u00e1 fundinum var fr\u00e1s\u00f6gn af \u201cHamf\u00f6runum \u00e1 Haiti.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Mig langar a\u00f0 vera tillitssamur, r\u00e9tts\u00fdnn, bjarts\u00fdnn, almennilegur, hreinskiptinn, einl\u00e6gur og ekta. \u00c9g heyr\u00f0i \u00ed vikunni pr\u00f3fessor kvarta undan fj\u00f3r\u00f0a bo\u00f0or\u00f0inu \u00e1 m\u00e1l\u00feingi \u00ed H\u00e1sk\u00f3lanum, hlusta\u00f0i \u00e1 kollega minn \u00ed kirkjunni kvarta undan hva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 fl\u00f3ki\u00f0 a\u00f0 bo\u00f0a n\u00e1\u00f0 Gu\u00f0s og hlusta\u00f0i \u00e1 me\u00f0vita\u00f0ar vinkonur ford\u00e6ma syndaskilning kristninnar fyrir a\u00f0 brj\u00f3ta ni\u00f0ur sj\u00e1lfsmynd ungra st\u00falkna.<\/p>\n

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Fyrstu vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 m\u00edn eru a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 finna \u00fat hvernig vi\u00f0 getum a\u00f0laga\u00f0 \u00feetta allt saman einhvern veginn. Hvernig vi\u00f0 getum n\u00e1\u00f0 saman um mismunandi sko\u00f0anir.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er nefnilega svo erfitt \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 eru ekki allir s\u00e1ttir, \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri svo gaman ef a\u00f0 allt gengi eins og vi\u00f0 viljum. A\u00f0 m\u00f6rgu leiti er samf\u00e9lagi\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00cdslandi \u00f3tr\u00falega einfalt. S\u00f6ngkonan Bj\u00f6rk syngur um a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f6rf s\u00edna sem nor\u00f0urlandab\u00fai til a\u00f0 skipuleggja frelsi\u00f0 (to organize freedom) og kannski m\u00e1 segja a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hafi a\u00f0 m\u00f6rgu gerst \u00e1 \u00cdslandi. Vi\u00f0 lifum vi\u00f0 skipulagt frelsi. Vi\u00f0 erum \u00e1 sama b\u00e1ti og stundum finnst okkur \u00f6\u00f0ru mikilv\u00e6gara a\u00f0 finna s\u00e1tt \u00ed \u00f6llum hlutum.<\/p>\n

Vi\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00e6skul\u00fd\u00f0ssvi\u00f0i KFUM og KFUK h\u00f6fum s\u00ed\u00f0ustu tvo daga seti\u00f0 n\u00e1mskei\u00f0 um hvernig h\u00e6gt er a\u00f0 breg\u00f0ast vi\u00f0 h\u00e6ttunni \u00e1 kynfer\u00f0isgl\u00e6pam\u00f6nnum \u00ed starfinu okkar og \u00ed starfi kirkjunnar, og l\u00e6rt a\u00f0 \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 vandam\u00e1li\u00f0 s\u00e9 al\u00fej\u00f3\u00f0legt og gl\u00e6pirnir um margt l\u00edkir jafnvel \u00fev\u00ed sem n\u00e6st eins, \u00fe\u00e1 er hvert m\u00e1l einstakt og erfitt. Ekki bara fyrir \u00feolandann, heldur ekki s\u00ed\u00f0ur fj\u00f6lskyldur allra sem a\u00f0 m\u00e1linu koma, \u00fe\u00e1 h\u00f3pa sem \u00feolandi og gerandi tilheyr\u00f0u og \u00ed raun samf\u00e9lagi\u00f0 allt. Gl\u00e6purinn er ekki a\u00f0eins gl\u00e6pur eins einstaklings gagnvart \u00f6\u00f0rum, heldur um lei\u00f0 hamfarir, \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9lags\u00e1fall, jar\u00f0skj\u00e1lfti, eldgos e\u00f0a fl\u00f3\u00f0bylgja yfir n\u00e6rumhverfi allra sem a\u00f0 m\u00e1linu koma.<\/p>\n

\u00deegar hamfarir ganga yfir \u00fe\u00e1 eru engar einfaldar lausnir, \u00fea\u00f0 er enginn s\u00e1tt, \u00fea\u00f0 er enginn lei\u00f0 til a\u00f0 fjarl\u00e6gja sorgina, s\u00e1rindin, sektarkenndina, \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 laga allt. Heimurinn er einfaldlega \u201cmessed up\u201d.<\/p>\n

Gamla Testamenti\u00f0 er uppfullt af \u201cmessed up\u201d a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um. Sp\u00e1ma\u00f0urinn Jerem\u00eda \u00f6skrar og h\u00f3tar Gu\u00f0i, Sara krefst \u00feess a\u00f0 Abraham reki son sinn og barnsm\u00f3\u00f0ur til a\u00f0 deyja \u00fat \u00ed ey\u00f0im\u00f6rkinni, og Abraham gerir \u00fea\u00f0. \u00de\u00f3 Haga\u00ed og \u00cdsmael lifi af raunina \u00fe\u00e1 er \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e6ttf\u00f6\u00f0ur og -m\u00f3\u00f0ur \u00cdsraels\u00fej\u00f3\u00f0arinnar ekki a\u00f0 \u00feakka. Dav\u00ed\u00f0 l\u00e6tur drepa eiginmann Batshebu, H\u00f3sea gl\u00edmir vi\u00f0 \u00f3tr\u00faa eiginkonu s\u00edna. J\u00f3sef fyrirgefur br\u00e6\u00f0rum s\u00ednum misgj\u00f6r\u00f0ir s\u00ednar, veitir \u00feeim m\u00f6guleika \u00e1 n\u00fdju l\u00edfi en \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir \u00fea\u00f0 sv\u00edkja \u00feeir lofor\u00f0 sitt gagnvart honum um a\u00f0 jar\u00f0a hann \u00ed landi forfe\u00f0ranna, \u00cdsrael.<\/p>\n

\u00cd \u00feessum a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um bi\u00f0ja \u00cdsraelsmenn a\u00f0 b\u00f6rn \u00f3vina sinna ver\u00f0i \u00ferifin og slegin ni\u00f0ur vi\u00f0 stein. \u00deeir hr\u00f3pa \u00e1 Gu\u00f0 um a\u00f0 n\u00e1grannar f\u00e1i sj\u00f6falt til baka misgj\u00f6r\u00f0ir gagnvart s\u00e9r.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er \u00fev\u00ed g\u00f6mul og n\u00fd saga a\u00f0 ver\u00f6ldin s\u00e9 margbrotin, s\u00e1r og fl\u00f3kin. \u00cd dag ganga millj\u00f3nir barna til hv\u00edlu \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 hafa n\u00e1\u00f0 a\u00f0 se\u00f0ja hungur sitt, jafnvel \u00ed Bandar\u00edkjunum, r\u00edkasta landi heims munu einhverjir deyja \u00ed dag vegna f\u00e1t\u00e6ktar.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er \u00ed \u00feessum a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um sem a\u00f0 or\u00f0 Gu\u00f0s um a\u00f0 hei\u00f0ra f\u00f6\u00f0ur og m\u00f3\u00f0ur eru \u00f3endanlega mikilv\u00e6g, sama hva\u00f0 menntu\u00f0u f\u00f3lki \u00ed f\u00edlabeinsturni skipulag\u00f0a frelsisins \u00e1 Nor\u00f0url\u00f6ndum kann a\u00f0 finnast. \u00c1n \u00f6ryggis fj\u00f6lskyldunnar, foreldranna og vir\u00f0ingu fyrir \u00feeirri festu sem n\u00e6rfj\u00f6lskyldan b\u00fd\u00f0ur, \u00fe\u00e1 eru l\u00edkurnar \u00e1 framt\u00ed\u00f0 verulega skertar. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekki a\u00f0 \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0ulausu a\u00f0 fj\u00f3r\u00f0a bo\u00f0or\u00f0i\u00f0 er stundum kalla\u00f0 eina bo\u00f0or\u00f0i\u00f0 me\u00f0 fyrirheiti. \u201cSvo \u00fe\u00fa ver\u00f0ir langl\u00edfur \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed landi, sem Drottinn Gu\u00f0 \u00feinn gefur \u00fe\u00e9r.\u201d<\/p>\n

Framt\u00ed\u00f0 barns \u00e1n foreldra er ekki v\u00e6nleg \u00ed st\u00e6rstum hluta heimsins sem vi\u00f0 b\u00faum \u00ed. Vissulega breg\u00f0ast foreldrar \u00e1 stundum. Vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fum heyrt af \u00fev\u00ed lj\u00f3tar s\u00f6gur \u00e1 s\u00ed\u00f0ustu vikum, en \u00fea\u00f0 er skamms\u00fdni og tilraun til au\u00f0veldra lausna a\u00f0 halda a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 getum hlaupi\u00f0 \u00e1 har\u00f0aspretti fr\u00e1 fj\u00f6lskyldunni og foreldrar\u00e9ttinum. Enda skal enginn voga s\u00e9r a\u00f0 halda \u00fev\u00ed fram a\u00f0 \u201cskr\u00fdmsli\u201d sem leita \u00e1 b\u00f6rn, \u00feurfi \u00e1 bo\u00f0or\u00f0um Gu\u00f0s a\u00f0 halda til a\u00f0 r\u00e9ttl\u00e6ta heg\u00f0un s\u00edna e\u00f0a eins og e.t.v. einhverjir halda, til a\u00f0 halda illskuverkum s\u00ednum leyndum.<\/p>\n

Marie Fortune sem kenndi \u00e1 n\u00e1mskei\u00f0inu sem vi\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00e6skul\u00fd\u00f0ssvi\u00f0i s\u00e1tum, minnti okkur \u00e1 a\u00f0 hamfarir sem \u00e1 okkur dynja s\u00e9u \u00ed raun tvenns konar. Annars vegar \u00fe\u00e6r sem vir\u00f0ast \u00e1 valdi manna, e\u00f0a jafnvel framleiddar af m\u00f6nnum, s.s. efnahagshrun, hry\u00f0juverk og kynfer\u00f0isgl\u00e6pir, hins vegar \u00fe\u00e6r sem standa utan vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 sem vi\u00f0 getum stj\u00f3rna\u00f0, fyrir mig er n\u00e6rt\u00e6kast a\u00f0 tala \u00fear um jar\u00f0skj\u00e1lftann \u00e1 Haiti.<\/p>\n

Me\u00f0an jar\u00f0skj\u00e1lftar og eldgos kalla fram \u00fea\u00f0 besta \u00ed \u00f6llum sem a\u00f0 koma, \u00fe\u00e1 er \u00e1 stundum eins og mannger\u00f0ar hamfarir lei\u00f0i til \u00feess a\u00f0 allt \u00fea\u00f0 versta brj\u00f3tist fram. Hatur, rei\u00f0i, hefnd.<\/p>\n

\u00de\u00e1 er \u00e9g ekki a\u00f0 tala um \u00feolendurna og fj\u00f6lskyldur \u00feeirra, enda ekkert e\u00f0lilegra en a\u00f0 \u00feau finni til \u00feessara tilfinninga. En hatri\u00f0 og rei\u00f0in eru ekki bundin \u00fear \u00ed kj\u00f6lfar mannger\u00f0ra hamfara. Hamfarir af mannav\u00f6ldum vir\u00f0ast gefa \u00f6llum leyfi til a\u00f0 rei\u00f0ast, til a\u00f0 mei\u00f0a, til a\u00f0 hr\u00f3pa, til a\u00f0 s\u00e6ra.<\/p>\n

Syndin fylgir okkur nefnilega, h\u00fan br\u00fdst inn til okkar og dregur okkur me\u00f0 \u00ed hrunadans rei\u00f0i og illsku, syndin leitar f\u00e6ris til a\u00f0 brj\u00f3tast \u00fat, ekki a\u00f0eins \u00ed gj\u00f6r\u00f0um illgj\u00f6r\u00f0amannanna, heldur \u00ed vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0um \u00feess sem stendur hj\u00e1. Annars vegar \u00ed skeytingarleysi um \u00feolandann og hins vegar og ekki s\u00ed\u00f0ur \u00ed hatrinu gagnvart gerandanum, og \u00fear er \u00e9g svo sannarlega sekur l\u00edkt og a\u00f0rir.<\/p>\n

Vissulega er syndaskilningur kristninnar ekki j\u00e1kv\u00e6tt og uppbyggjandi sj\u00e1lfstyrkingarpr\u00f3gram. \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00ed sj\u00e1lfu s\u00e9r enginn vitleysa hj\u00e1 me\u00f0vitu\u00f0u vinkonum m\u00ednum a\u00f0 \u00ed me\u00f0vitund okkar um syndina felist a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 finnum til sektarkenndar gagnvart Gu\u00f0i. Enda er \u00fea\u00f0 einfaldlega svo a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 erum sek.<\/p>\n

Eins og P\u00e1ll segir svo sk\u00fdrt \u00ed R\u00f3mverjabr\u00e9finu: \u201cH\u00e9r er enginn greinarmunur: Allir hafa syndga\u00f0 og skortir Gu\u00f0s d\u00fdr\u00f0 og Gu\u00f0 r\u00e9ttl\u00e6tir \u00fe\u00e1, \u00e1n \u00feess nokkur ver\u00f0skuldi \u00fea\u00f0, af n\u00e1\u00f0 me\u00f0 endurlausn sinni \u00ed Kristi Jes\u00fa.\u201d<\/p>\n

Sem minnir okkur \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 syndaskilningur kristninnar stendur ekki einn og s\u00e9r. \u00cd fagna\u00f0arerindinu felst nefnilega ekki a\u00f0eins vi\u00f0urkenning \u00e1 breiskleika okkur, heldur fullvissa um Gu\u00f0s d\u00fdr\u00f0 og n\u00e1\u00f0 okkur til handa.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er \u00feessi bo\u00f0skapur um n\u00e1\u00f0, um gj\u00f6f Gu\u00f0s. Tr\u00fain \u00e1 a\u00f0 Gu\u00f0 s\u00e9 me\u00f0 okkur, ekki vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 s\u00e9um g\u00f3\u00f0 og skemmtileg til a\u00f0 hanga me\u00f0, heldur vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 Gu\u00f0 er g\u00f3\u00f0ur, sama hva\u00f0 gerist, sama hva\u00f0 vi\u00f0 gerum.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er s\u00e1 bo\u00f0skapur sem vi\u00f0 k\u00f6llum fagna\u00f0arerindi\u00f0. N\u00e1\u00f0arbo\u00f0skapur Krists er mikilv\u00e6gur, ekki sem sj\u00e1lfstyrkingarpr\u00f3gram, heldur sem \u00e1minning um a\u00f0 Gu\u00f0 er allra, l\u00edka \u00feeirra sem eiga \u00fea\u00f0 ekki skili\u00f0. \u00c1minning um a\u00f0 jafnvel skepnan, illmenni\u00f0, \u00f3menni\u00f0, dj\u00f6fullinn sj\u00e1lfur er undir Gu\u00f0 settur, og vi\u00f0, ekki gleyma \u00fev\u00ed, og vi\u00f0 erum l\u00edka Gu\u00f0s.<\/p>\n

\u00der\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 mig langi til a\u00f0 vera tillitssamur, r\u00e9tts\u00fdnn, bjarts\u00fdnn, almennilegur, hreinskiptinn, einl\u00e6gur og ekta. \u00de\u00e1 er stundum erfitt a\u00f0 horfa \u00e1 fl\u00f3ttann fr\u00e1 n\u00e1\u00f0inni \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 sig, kannski vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00e9g hef fengi\u00f0 a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 n\u00e1\u00f0 Gu\u00f0s, \u00e9g hef sj\u00e1lfur rei\u00f0st vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 Gu\u00f0 er m\u00e9r of g\u00f3\u00f0ur, \u00e9g hef s\u00e9\u00f0 Gu\u00f0 gr\u00edpa inn \u00ed l\u00edf mitt og lei\u00f0a \u00fea\u00f0 til g\u00f3\u00f0s. \u00c9g hef upplifa\u00f0 a\u00f0 vera ekki vi\u00f0 stj\u00f3rnv\u00f6linn \u00ed m\u00ednu l\u00edfi, heldur \u00feurfa a\u00f0 treysta \u00e1 Gu\u00f0.<\/p>\n

\u00deegar \u00e9g rei\u00f0ist n\u00e1\u00f0inni, get \u00e9g \u00e1 m\u00f3tsagnakenndan gla\u00f0st yfir a\u00f0 \u00e9g m\u00e1 lifa \u00ed fullvissu \u00feess a\u00f0 Gu\u00f0 hlustar, er me\u00f0 \u00ed \u00feessu \u201cmessed up\u201d l\u00edfi og \u00e9g get lifa\u00f0 \u00ed trausti til \u00feess a\u00f0 \u201chvorki dau\u00f0i n\u00e9 l\u00edf, englar n\u00e9 tignir, hvorki hi\u00f0 yfirstandandi n\u00e9 hi\u00f0 \u00f3komna, hvorki kraftar, h\u00e6\u00f0 n\u00e9 d\u00fdpt n\u00e9 nokku\u00f0 anna\u00f0 skapa\u00f0 muni geta gert okkur vi\u00f0skila vi\u00f0 k\u00e6rleika Gu\u00f0s sem birtist \u00ed Kristi Jes\u00fa, Drottni vorum.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Flutt \u00e1 fundi AD KFUM fimmtudaginn 20. okt\u00f3ber. Fundarefni \u00e1 fundinum var fr\u00e1s\u00f6gn af \u201cHamf\u00f6runum \u00e1 Haiti.\u201d Mig langar a\u00f0 vera tillitssamur, r\u00e9tts\u00fdnn, bjarts\u00fdnn, almennilegur, hreinskiptinn, einl\u00e6gur og ekta. \u00c9g heyr\u00f0i \u00ed vikunni pr\u00f3fessor kvarta undan fj\u00f3r\u00f0a bo\u00f0or\u00f0inu \u00e1 m\u00e1l\u00feingi \u00ed H\u00e1sk\u00f3lanum, hlusta\u00f0i \u00e1 kollega minn \u00ed kirkjunni kvarta undan hva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 fl\u00f3ki\u00f0 a\u00f0 … Continue reading Hamfarir, rei\u00f0i, hatur og n\u00e1\u00f0<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wds_primary_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[27,34,39,45,78,85,87,95,121,146,147],"class_list":["post-3722","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-islenska","tag-christ","tag-community","tag-crap","tag-deeds","tag-haiti","tag-hruni","tag-iceland","tag-kfumk","tag-preaching","tag-stewardship","tag-storytelling"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3722","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3722"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3722\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3722"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3722"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3722"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}