{"id":372,"date":"2007-01-23T18:03:23","date_gmt":"2007-01-23T18:03:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/elli.annall.is\/2007-01-23\/18.03.23"},"modified":"2007-01-23T18:03:23","modified_gmt":"2007-01-23T18:03:23","slug":"180323","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/2007\/01\/23\/180323\/","title":{"rendered":"Vinalei\u00f0in"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c9g var fyrir margt l\u00f6ngu b\u00fain a\u00f0 \u00e1kve\u00f0a a\u00f0 skrifa ekki f\u00e6rslu um Vinalei\u00f0ina h\u00e9r \u00e1 ann\u00e1linn minn, nema undir r\u00f3s. En \u00fear sem \u00e9g er ekki mikill prinsipma\u00f0ur, \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e6tla \u00e9g a\u00f0 n\u00f3tera nokkra mikilv\u00e6ga \u00fe\u00e6tti, sem \u00e9g tel a\u00f0 \u00feurfi a\u00f0 l\u00edta til og byggi \u00e1 umm\u00e6lum m\u00ednum \u00e1 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.vantru.is\/2007\/01\/17\/15.00\/\">Vantr\u00faarvefnum<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p> <!--more--> Af \u00f6llu sem \u00e9g hef heyrt vir\u00f0ist m\u00e9r a\u00f0 undirb\u00faningur Vinalei\u00f0arinnar \u00ed Gar\u00f0b\u00e6 hafi veri\u00f0 fremur &#8220;naiv&#8221; innan kirkjunnar. Vi\u00f0 sem tilheyrum eigum \u00fea\u00f0 til a\u00f0 gleyma \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0in sem er \u00fej\u00f3na\u00f0 er ekki jafn einsleit og h\u00fan var fyrir a\u00f0eins 20 \u00e1rum. \u00c9g er reyndar sannf\u00e6r\u00f0ur um a\u00f0 Vinalei\u00f0arverkefni\u00f0 s\u00e9 j\u00e1kv\u00e6tt a\u00f0 flestu leiti og markmi\u00f0in g\u00f6fug, en \u00feegar a\u00f0 \u00ed lj\u00f3s kom a\u00f0 ekki allir voru \u00e1 sama m\u00e1li, klikka\u00f0i eitthva\u00f0 e\u00f0a \u00f6llu heldur &#8220;naiv&#8221; undirb\u00faningurinn kom \u00ed lj\u00f3s. Fyrstu vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 kirkjunnar og sk\u00f3lans, voru a\u00f0 pakka \u00ed v\u00f6rn \u00ed sta\u00f0 \u00feess a\u00f0 hlusta. \u00deetta hefur s\u00ed\u00f0an valdi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00ed sta\u00f0 \u00feess a\u00f0 fagna vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0um og bi\u00f0ja f\u00f3lk um a\u00f0 gera athugasemdir, \u00fe\u00e1 hefur m\u00e1li\u00f0 sn\u00faist um nafnlaus og ekki nafnlaus br\u00e9f, kr\u00f6fur um a\u00f0 \u00fej\u00f3nustunni s\u00e9 h\u00e6tt tafarlaust, n\u00fa e\u00f0a a\u00f0 allt s\u00e9 \u00ed besta lagi og engu \u00feurfi a\u00f0 breyta. &#8220;Name Calling&#8221; \u00e1 b\u00e1\u00f0a b\u00f3ga hefur einkennt umr\u00e6\u00f0una og \u00e9g tel a\u00f0 s\u00f6kin felist a\u00f0 miklu leiti hj\u00e1 kirkjunni og sk\u00f3layfirv\u00f6ldum fyrir a\u00f0 hafa ekki unni\u00f0 forvinnuna betur. \u00deetta \u00e1stand merkir \u00ed dag a\u00f0 einstaka foreldrar \u00feora ekki a\u00f0 benda \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sem betur m\u00e1 fara af \u00f3tta vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 tengsl vi\u00f0 sk\u00f3lann b\u00ed\u00f0i hnekki, sem hafa n\u00fa \u00feegar ska\u00f0a\u00f0 tengsl einstakra foreldra og sk\u00f3la g\u00edfurlega enda trausti\u00f0 fari\u00f0.<br \/>\u00c9g tel a\u00f0 \u00fej\u00f3nusta Vinalei\u00f0arinnar s\u00e9 mikilv\u00e6g e\u00f0a \u00ed versta falli mj\u00f6g g\u00f3\u00f0 vi\u00f0b\u00f3t vi\u00f0 sk\u00f3lastarf \u00e1 \u00cdslandi. \u00c9g er a\u00f0 m\u00f6rgu leiti stoltur af kirkjunni fyrir a\u00f0 \u00fer\u00f3a \u00feessa \u00fej\u00f3nustu og finnst hugmyndin s\u00edna frams\u00fdni og v\u00e6ntum\u00feykju fyrir \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0inni sem kirkjan sinnir. Undirb\u00faningi var hins vegar \u00e1b\u00f3tavant og me\u00f0al mikilv\u00e6gra spurninga sem gleymdist a\u00f0 svara, e\u00f0a alla vega er ekki svara\u00f0 sk\u00fdrt eru t.d. <\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/elli.annall.is\/2006-10-19\/15.53.22\">Hvers vegna dj\u00e1kna og presta til a\u00f0 sinna verkefninu?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/elli.annall.is\/2006-10-19\/15.53.22\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/elli.annall.is\/2006-10-23\/16.36.37\">Er um a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a s\u00e1lg\u00e6slu e\u00f0a er \u00feetta stu\u00f0ningsvi\u00f0tal?<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Hvernig \u00e1 samskiptum kirkju og Vinalei\u00f0ar a\u00f0 vera h\u00e1tta\u00f0 (\u00f6\u00f0rum en fj\u00e1rhagslegum stu\u00f0ningi og \u00fer\u00f3un verkefnis)?<\/li>\n<li>Hvernig \u00e1 a\u00f0komu foreldra a\u00f0 vera h\u00e1tta\u00f0?<\/li>\n<li>Hvernig bj\u00f3\u00f0um vi\u00f0 foreldrum upp \u00e1 a\u00f0 breg\u00f0ast vi\u00f0 \u00fej\u00f3nustunni? B\u00e6\u00f0i \u00e1 j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0an og neikv\u00e6\u00f0an h\u00e1tt \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 ska\u00f0i tengsl foreldra og sk\u00f3la.<\/li>\n<li>Hver eru innri markmi\u00f0 kirkjunnar me\u00f0 a\u00f0komu a\u00f0 Vinalei\u00f0? Er Vinalei\u00f0in tilraun fyrir kirkjuna til a\u00f0 komast inn \u00ed sk\u00f3lanna me\u00f0 starf sitt e\u00f0a er Vinalei\u00f0in tilraun til a\u00f0 bj\u00f3\u00f0a upp \u00e1 starf til a\u00f0 l\u00e9tta undir me\u00f0 kennurum og bj\u00f3\u00f0a stu\u00f0ning vi\u00f0 b\u00f6rn \u00ed sk\u00f3lakerfinu me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 opna a\u00f0gang a\u00f0 fullor\u00f0inni manneskju me\u00f0 forsendur til a\u00f0 gefa s\u00e9r t\u00edma.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>M\u00edn sko\u00f0un er s\u00fa a\u00f0 a\u00f0eins me\u00f0 vanda\u00f0ri sj\u00e1lfsgagnr\u00fdni geti kirkjan komist hei\u00f0arlega \u00ed gegnum \u00fe\u00e1 gagnr\u00fdni sem h\u00fan hefur fengi\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 er mikilv\u00e6gt a\u00f0 spyrja \u00feessara spurninga, af hei\u00f0arleik og einl\u00e6gni. \u00deegar \u00fea\u00f0 hefur veri\u00f0 gert er s\u00ed\u00f0an h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 koma fram og kynna verkefni\u00f0 af stolti \u00ed sta\u00f0 \u00feess a\u00f0 hr\u00f6klast margsaga fr\u00e1 bor\u00f0i fr\u00e9ttamanna.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c9g var fyrir margt l\u00f6ngu b\u00fain a\u00f0 \u00e1kve\u00f0a a\u00f0 skrifa ekki f\u00e6rslu um Vinalei\u00f0ina h\u00e9r \u00e1 ann\u00e1linn minn, nema undir r\u00f3s. En \u00fear sem \u00e9g er ekki mikill prinsipma\u00f0ur, \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e6tla \u00e9g a\u00f0 n\u00f3tera nokkra mikilv\u00e6ga \u00fe\u00e6tti, sem \u00e9g tel a\u00f0 \u00feurfi a\u00f0 l\u00edta til og byggi \u00e1 umm\u00e6lum m\u00ednum \u00e1 Vantr\u00faarvefnum.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wds_primary_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[11,29,168],"class_list":["post-372","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-islenska","tag-atheists","tag-church","tag-youthwork"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/372","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=372"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/372\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=372"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=372"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=372"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}