{"id":3601,"date":"2011-06-02T08:21:28","date_gmt":"2011-06-02T12:21:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ispeculate.wpmudev.host\/main\/?p=3601"},"modified":"2011-06-02T08:21:28","modified_gmt":"2011-06-02T12:21:28","slug":"abyrgd-vold-og-gudsmynd","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/2011\/06\/02\/abyrgd-vold-og-gudsmynd\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c1byrg\u00f0, v\u00f6ld og Gu\u00f0smynd"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Einn af fj\u00f6lm\u00f6rgum fl\u00f6tum lei\u00f0togafr\u00e6\u00f0a sem \u00e9g hef sko\u00f0a\u00f0 nokku\u00f0 er samspil \u00e1byrg\u00f0ar og valds. \u00de\u00e1 s\u00e9r \u00ed lagi innan frj\u00e1lsra f\u00e9lagasamtaka og \u00e1 vettvangi kirkjunnar. Bowen Family Systems Theory (BFST) n\u00e1lgast \u00feetta \u00fat fr\u00e1 hugmyndum um &#8220;over- and under functioning&#8221; me\u00f0an a\u00f0 sumir a\u00f0rir leggja ofur\u00e1herslu \u00e1 v\u00f6ndu\u00f0 skipurit og g\u00f3\u00f0ar skilgreiningar til a\u00f0 koma \u00ed veg fyrir a\u00f0 rof myndist milli \u00e1byrg\u00f0ar og valds. <!--more-->Sl\u00edk \u00e1hersla \u00e1 a\u00f0 skilgreina vinnuferla og skipurit hefur oft \u00e1 s\u00e9r bl\u00e6 &#8220;over functioning&#8221; af hendi lei\u00f0toga, \u00feannig a\u00f0 tilraunin til a\u00f0 skilgreina \u00e1byrg\u00f0 og v\u00f6ld allra, lei\u00f0ir til rofsins sem reynt er a\u00f0 for\u00f0ast. En \u00feetta er svo sem ekki \u00e1hersla f\u00e6rslunnar, heldur vangaveltur um hvers konar Gu\u00f0smynd felst \u00ed &#8220;over-functioning&#8221; stj\u00f3rnunarst\u00edl.<\/p>\n<p>Hvar passa hugmyndir um fyrirgefningu og n\u00e1\u00f0 inn \u00ed stj\u00f3rnunarst\u00edl sem treystir ekki, getur ekki sleppt hendinni af verkefnum og \u00fearf a\u00f0 fylgjast me\u00f0 og hafa sko\u00f0anir \u00e1 flestum hlutum? \u00c1 sama h\u00e1tt m\u00e1 spyrja hvers konar Gu\u00f0smynd felist \u00ed stj\u00f3rnunarst\u00edl sem hugsar &#8220;bara&#8221; um eigin heg\u00f0un \u00ed kerfinu, en hafnar \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 bera \u00e1byrg\u00f0 \u00e1 og gr\u00edpa inn \u00ed heg\u00f0un annarra, jafnvel \u00fe\u00f3 \u00fea\u00f0 geti haft t\u00edmabundin neikv\u00e6\u00f0 \u00e1hrif \u00e1 kerfisheildina.<\/p>\n<p><em>Sj\u00e1 einnig: <a href=\"https:\/\/ispeculate.wpmudev.host\/main\/2007\/11\/sjalfstyrd-teymi\/\">Sj\u00e1lfst\u00fdr\u00f0 teymi<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Einn af fj\u00f6lm\u00f6rgum fl\u00f6tum lei\u00f0togafr\u00e6\u00f0a sem \u00e9g hef sko\u00f0a\u00f0 nokku\u00f0 er samspil \u00e1byrg\u00f0ar og valds. \u00de\u00e1 s\u00e9r \u00ed lagi innan frj\u00e1lsra f\u00e9lagasamtaka og \u00e1 vettvangi kirkjunnar. Bowen Family Systems Theory (BFST) n\u00e1lgast \u00feetta \u00fat fr\u00e1 hugmyndum um &#8220;over- and under functioning&#8221; me\u00f0an a\u00f0 sumir a\u00f0rir leggja ofur\u00e1herslu \u00e1 v\u00f6ndu\u00f0 skipurit og g\u00f3\u00f0ar skilgreiningar til a\u00f0 &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/2011\/06\/02\/abyrgd-vold-og-gudsmynd\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">\u00c1byrg\u00f0, v\u00f6ld og Gu\u00f0smynd<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wds_primary_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[97,108,150],"class_list":["post-3601","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-islenska","tag-leadership","tag-my-studies","tag-teaching"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3601","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3601"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3601\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3601"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3601"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3601"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}