\u00deegar \u00e9g les J\u00fadasarbr\u00e9f rifjast upp fyrir m\u00e9r \u00feegar \u00e9g t\u00f3k k\u00fars \u00ed “Organizational Behavior” sem er kenndur sem hluti MBA n\u00e1msins vi\u00f0 Capital University. Kennslustundin fjalla\u00f0i um hvers kyns “borderline” heg\u00f0un og narcissisma. Kennarinn lista\u00f0i upp nokkur mismunandi einkenni sl\u00edks atferlis og spur\u00f0i hversu m\u00f6rg okkar hef\u00f0u veri\u00f0 \u00ed verulegum samskiptum, n\u00e1nu samstarfi e\u00f0a unni\u00f0 me\u00f0 a.m.k. einum einstaklingi sem s\u00fdndi fleiri en eitt \u00feessara einkenna yfir lengri t\u00edma. Flestir nemarnir \u00ed bekknum voru \u00e1 sk\u00f3labekk eftir a\u00f0 hafa veri\u00f0 \u00fat \u00ed atvinnul\u00edfinu um einhverra hr\u00ed\u00f0, \u00feannig a\u00f0 r\u00famlega helmingur bekkjarins r\u00e9tti upp h\u00f6nd. Kennarinn spur\u00f0i aftur, hva\u00f0 m\u00f6rg ykkar hafa unni\u00f0 me\u00f0 e\u00f0a veri\u00f0 \u00ed samskiptum vi\u00f0 fleiri en einn, og st\u00f3r hluti handanna f\u00f3r ni\u00f0ur. Kennarinn spur\u00f0i hva\u00f0 m\u00f6rg hef\u00f0u unni\u00f0 me\u00f0 e\u00f0a veri\u00f0 \u00ed samskiptum vi\u00f0 fleiri en tvo og vi\u00f0 vorum \u00ferj\u00fa me\u00f0 h\u00f6ndina uppr\u00e9tta. \u00deegar kennarinn spur\u00f0i um fleiri en \u00ferj\u00e1, var \u00e9g s\u00e1 eini sem h\u00e9lt hendinni h\u00e1tt \u00e1 lofti.<\/p>\n
Kennarinn leit \u00e1 mig og spur\u00f0i: “Hvar hefur \u00fe\u00fa eiginlega unni\u00f0?”<\/p>\n
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Vandam\u00e1li\u00f0 er ekki n\u00fdtt \u00ed kirkjunni, h\u00f6fundur J\u00fadasarbr\u00e9fs hefur fengi\u00f0 n\u00f3g.<\/p>\n
\u00deeir eru sm\u00e1narblettur \u00e1 k\u00e6rleiksm\u00e1lt\u00ed\u00f0um ykkar er \u00feeir sitja a\u00f0 veislum me\u00f0 ykkur og h\u00e1ma \u00ed sig blyg\u00f0unarlaust og hugsa a\u00f0eins um eigin hag. \u00deeir eru eins og vatnslaus sk\u00fd sem rekast fyrir vindum, eins og tr\u00e9 sem bera ekki \u00e1v\u00f6xt a\u00f0 hausti, steindau\u00f0 og rifin upp me\u00f0 r\u00f3tum.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
\u00c9g s\u00f6kkti m\u00e9r ni\u00f0ur \u00ed kenningar um “magtmennesker” fyrir t\u00edu \u00e1rum eftir a\u00f0 hafa brennt mig illa innan kirkjunnar. \u00c9g man eftir a\u00f0 hafa lesi\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00feeim t\u00edma \u00ed b\u00f3k eftir nor\u00f0manninn Gunnar Elstad a\u00f0 stundum er ekki h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 vera “nice.” \u00dea\u00f0 eru til einstaklingar sem a\u00f0eins Gu\u00f0 getur bjarga\u00f0. A\u00f0 leyfa sl\u00edkri manneskju a\u00f0 leika lausum hala \u00ed kirkjulegu starfi ey\u00f0ileggur l\u00edf margra. \u00deetta veit ritari J\u00fadasarbr\u00e9fs vel, hann hefur sj\u00e1lfsagt s\u00e9\u00f0 til einstaklinga sem misnotu\u00f0u a\u00f0ra kynfer\u00f0islega, notu\u00f0u kirkjusamf\u00e9lagi\u00f0 til a\u00f0 h\u00f3ta \u00feeim sem st\u00f3\u00f0u utan vi\u00f0. Hann hefur sj\u00e1lfsagt s\u00e9\u00f0 \u00ed gegnum blekkingarnar og lygarnar sem si\u00f0leysingjarnir sem h\u00f6f\u00f0u komi\u00f0 s\u00e9r fyrir \u00ed s\u00f6fnu\u00f0inum notu\u00f0u til a\u00f0 styrkja v\u00f6ld s\u00edn.<\/p>\n
\u00deessir menn eru s\u00edkvartandi og kenna \u00f6\u00f0rum um \u00f6rl\u00f6g s\u00edn og lifa eftir girndum s\u00ednum. Munnur \u00feeirra m\u00e6lir ofstopaor\u00f0 og \u00feeir smja\u00f0ra fyrir \u00f6\u00f0rum, s\u00e9r til \u00e1vinnings.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
J\u00fadasarbr\u00e9f talar sterkt til m\u00edn, \u00fea\u00f0 minnir mig \u00e1 a\u00f0 berjast gegn skr\u00fdmslunum sem koma s\u00e9r fyrir \u00ed kirkjunni, nota v\u00f6ld og \u00e1hrif kirkjunnar til a\u00f0 tryggja s\u00edna eigin st\u00f6\u00f0u. Kallar mig til a\u00f0 berjast gegn \u00feeim sem misnota og misbj\u00f3\u00f0a f\u00f3lki til a\u00f0 fulln\u00e6gja eigin girndum.<\/p>\n
Lesturinn \u00f6grar m\u00e9r samt l\u00edka, \u00fea\u00f0 er nefnilega alltaf s\u00fa h\u00e6tta fyrir hendi a\u00f0 \u00e9g ver\u00f0i einn \u00feeirra sem br\u00e9fi\u00f0 d\u00e6mir. \u00c9g missi sj\u00f3nar \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed sem m\u00e1li skiptir og ver\u00f0i sj\u00e1lfsd\u00fdrkuninni a\u00f0 br\u00e1\u00f0.<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 er \u00feess vegna sem a\u00f0 \u00e9g m\u00e1 aldrei gleyma a\u00f0 \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 okkur s\u00e9u takm\u00f6rk sett, \u00fe\u00e1 getur\u00a0Gu\u00f0 gerir okkur m\u00f6gulegt a\u00f0 koma fram fyrir d\u00fdr\u00f0 s\u00edna l\u00fdtalaus \u00ed f\u00f6gnu\u00f0i.\u00a0\u00cd \u00fev\u00ed felst vonin, ekki a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 getum gert allt gott og r\u00e9tt, heldur a\u00f0 Gu\u00f0 megnar allt.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00deegar \u00e9g les J\u00fadasarbr\u00e9f rifjast upp fyrir m\u00e9r \u00feegar \u00e9g t\u00f3k k\u00fars \u00ed “Organizational Behavior” sem er kenndur sem hluti MBA n\u00e1msins vi\u00f0 Capital University. Kennslustundin fjalla\u00f0i um hvers kyns “borderline” heg\u00f0un og narcissisma. Kennarinn lista\u00f0i upp nokkur mismunandi einkenni sl\u00edks atferlis og spur\u00f0i hversu m\u00f6rg okkar hef\u00f0u veri\u00f0 \u00ed verulegum samskiptum, n\u00e1nu samstarfi e\u00f0a … Continue reading J\u00fadasarbr\u00e9f<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wds_primary_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[31,34,70,89,147],"class_list":["post-2679","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-lestur","tag-clergy","tag-community","tag-gods-plan","tag-injustice","tag-storytelling"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2679","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2679"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2679\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2679"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2679"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2679"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}