\u00cd lok jan\u00faar 2003 f\u00f3r \u00e9g \u00e1 r\u00e1\u00f0stefnu fyrir \u00e6skul\u00fd\u00f0sfulltr\u00faa sem var haldin \u00ed High Leigh Christian Conference Centre \u00ed Englandi. P\u00e9tur Bj\u00f6rgvin vildi heyra meira um r\u00e1\u00f0stefnuna og \u00fev\u00ed skelli \u00e9g \u00fe\u00f6nkum m\u00ednum h\u00e9r.<\/p>\n
R\u00e1\u00f0stefnan var sameiginlegt verkefni kirkna og f\u00e9lagasamtaka \u00e1 Englandi, m.a. Amaze (www.amaze.org.uk<\/a>), Frontier Youth Trust (www.fyt.org.uk<\/a>), Youth for Christ, Baptist Union of Great Britian, Centre for Youth Ministry, Oxford Youth Works, Scripture Union og CPAS. \u00d6ll \u00feessi samt\u00f6k eiga \u00fea\u00f0 sameiginlegt a\u00f0 standa a\u00f0 kristilegu starfi fyrir ungt f\u00f3lk. \u00c9g fr\u00e9tti af r\u00e1\u00f0stefnunni \u00ed gegnum t\u00edmariti\u00f0 Youthwork sem KFUM og KFUK \u00e1 \u00cdslandi er \u00e1skrifandi a\u00f0 og \u00e1kva\u00f0 a\u00f0 skr\u00e1 mig eftir a\u00f0 hafa sko\u00f0a\u00f0 \u00e1 heimas\u00ed\u00f0u r\u00e1\u00f0stefnunnar hva\u00f0a m\u00e1lefni yr\u00f0i fjalla\u00f0 um. Landssamband KFUM og KFUK styrkti mig um fargj\u00f6ld og n\u00e1mskei\u00f0sgjald.<\/p>\n Um r\u00e1\u00f0stefnuna<\/strong> <\/p>\n R\u00e1\u00f0stefnan st\u00f3\u00f0 \u00ed r\u00fama tvo s\u00f3larhringa og var bygg\u00f0 upp \u00ed kringum tvo meginfyrirlestra og valdagskr\u00e1 sem skiptist \u00ed fj\u00f3rar samverur. \u00dear var upp \u00e1 vinnuh\u00f3pa (workshops) og tveir spjallstundir (chat-rooms). \u00cd lokin var samantekt \u00e1 umfj\u00f6llun r\u00e1\u00f0stefnunar.<\/p>\n A\u00f0alfyrirlesarar voru tveir, Graham Glay, biskup fr\u00e1 ensku biskupakirkjunni, s\u00e9rfr\u00e6\u00f0ingur \u00e1 svi\u00f0i unglingamenningar og \u00e6skul\u00fd\u00f0sstarfs og Sam Richards, framkv\u00e6mdastj\u00f3ri Oxford Youth Works.<\/p>\n \u00de\u00e1 st\u00fdr\u00f0i mikill fj\u00f6ldi s\u00e9rfr\u00e6\u00f0inga spjallstundunum og vinnuh\u00f3punum.<\/p>\n R\u00famlega 200 \u00e6skul\u00fd\u00f0sfulltr\u00faar s\u00f3ttu r\u00e1\u00f0stefnuna, \u00fev\u00ed sem n\u00e6st allir fr\u00e1 Bretlandi, en \u00fe\u00f3 voru einstaklingar fr\u00e1 Danm\u00f6rku, Hollandi, Bandar\u00edkjunum, \u00cdslandi (\u00e9g) og Sviss. H\u00e9r \u00e1 eftir fylgja minnispunktar af r\u00e1\u00f0stefnunni. \u00dear er margt a\u00f0 finna sem a\u00f0 gagni getur komi\u00f0 \u00ed kristilegu \u00e6skul\u00fd\u00f0sstarfi.<\/p>\n Fyrirlestur Graham Glay<\/strong><\/p>\n Graham Glay h\u00f3f r\u00e1\u00f0stefnuna me\u00f0 umfj\u00f6llun um st\u00f6\u00f0u kirkjunnar og okkar \u00ed \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9lagi sem v\u00e6ri ekki lengur post-modern\u00edskt, ekki lengur post eitt e\u00f0a neitt, heldur alveg n\u00fdtt. Hann lag\u00f0i \u00e1herslu \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00feetta n\u00fdja \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9lag skilgreindi fjarl\u00e6g\u00f0ir \u00e1 n\u00fdjan h\u00e1tt, fjarl\u00e6g\u00f0ir v\u00e6ru m\u00e6ldar \u00ed sek\u00fandum en ekki metrum. T\u00edminn v\u00e6ri m\u00e6lieiningin sem sameina\u00f0i e\u00f0a sundra\u00f0i. Hi\u00f0 n\u00fdja \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9lag ger\u00f0i kr\u00f6fu um hra\u00f0a, vi\u00f0 v\u00e6rum \u00ed neyslu\u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9lagi \u00fear sem f\u00f3lk vildi kaupa skilgreinda pakka en hafna\u00f0i \u00f3lj\u00f3sum \u00f3skilgreindum hugmyndir um f\u00e9lagskennd e\u00f0a samf\u00e9lag. Safna\u00f0arvitund v\u00e6ri hugtak gamals t\u00edma, engin lofar a\u00f0 tilheyra einhverju alla t\u00ed\u00f0. \u00c6vir\u00e1\u00f0ningar heyra fort\u00ed\u00f0inni til.<\/p>\n Hvernig m\u00e6tir kirkjan\/kristilegt starf til leiks \u00ed \u00feessum a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um? H\u00f6fum vi\u00f0 eitthva\u00f0 a\u00f0 bj\u00f3\u00f0a?<\/p>\n Graham Glay lag\u00f0i \u00e1herslu \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f6rfin fyrir elsku, traust og \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 tilheyra v\u00e6ri ekki horfin. H\u00fan v\u00e6ri breytt og kristilegt starf \u00feyrfti l\u00edkt og \u00e1\u00f0ur a\u00f0 koma til m\u00f3ts vi\u00f0 \u00feessar breytingar. Vandam\u00e1li\u00f0 v\u00e6ri hvernig!<\/p>\n Fyrirlestur Sam Richards<\/strong><\/p>\n Sam Richards n\u00e1lga\u00f0ist veruleikann \u00e1 annan h\u00e1tt. H\u00fan v\u00edsa\u00f0i til i\u00f0nbyltingarinnar \u00e1 17. \u00f6ld og sag\u00f0i a\u00f0 e.t.v. v\u00e6ri breytingin ekki jafnmikil n\u00fa og vi\u00f0 h\u00e9ldum. Alla vega v\u00e6ri lj\u00f3st a\u00f0 \u00fearfir ungs f\u00f3lks v\u00e6ru \u00fe\u00e6r s\u00f6mu, \u00e1st, traust og \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 tilheyra. Kirkjan hef\u00f0i \u00fea\u00f0 hlutverk a\u00f0 finna \u00feessum \u00fe\u00f6rfum farveg \u00ed samf\u00e9lagi f\u00f3lks og vi\u00f0 Gu\u00f0. Sam velti einnig fyrir s\u00e9r st\u00f6\u00f0u \u00e6skul\u00fd\u00f0sstarfs \u00ed kirkjunni og nota\u00f0ist vi\u00f0 l\u00edkingu P\u00e1ls postula um a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 v\u00e6rum l\u00edkami Krists. Hennar ni\u00f0ursta\u00f0a var s\u00fa a\u00f0 \u00e6skul\u00fd\u00f0sstarfi\u00f0 v\u00e6ru kynf\u00e6ri kirkjunnar. Alla vega liti svo \u00fat a\u00f0 kirkjan v\u00e6ri heltekin af kynl\u00edfi ungs f\u00f3lks, um \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ru skrifa\u00f0ar fleiri b\u00e6kur en um nokku\u00f0 anna\u00f0 sem snertir unglinga. \u00de\u00e1 v\u00e6ru kynf\u00e6rin yfirleitt hulin sj\u00f3num annarra, vi\u00f0 v\u00e6rum feimin a\u00f0 tala um \u00feau og til hvers \u00feau v\u00e6ru \u00e6tlu\u00f0. S\u00ed\u00f0ast en ekki s\u00edst v\u00e6ri \u00e6skul\u00fd\u00f0sstarfi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 starf sem ylli vexti \u00ed kirkjunni. Hennar kall til okkar var a\u00f0 hugsa \u00e1fram og reyna a\u00f0 gera \u00e6skul\u00fd\u00f0sstarfi\u00f0 a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfs\u00f6g\u00f0um hlut sem kirkjan \u00feyr\u00f0i a\u00f0 vi\u00f0urkenna og sam\u00feykkja. Vandi barna- og \u00e6skul\u00fd\u00f0sstarfs er a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 erum a\u00f0 kenna unga f\u00f3lkinu a\u00f0 lifa \u00ed samf\u00e9lagi. Samf\u00e9lagi\u00f0 hr\u00e6\u00f0ist \u00feetta unga f\u00f3lk \u00fev\u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki visst um a\u00f0 unga f\u00f3lki\u00f0 n\u00e1i a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra r\u00e9tt \u00e1 samf\u00e9lagi\u00f0. Segja m\u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00ed ungu f\u00f3lki felist b\u00e6\u00f0i \u00ed senn \u00f3gnanir og t\u00e6kif\u00e6ri kirkjunnar.<\/p>\n \u00de\u00e1 fjalla\u00f0i Sam um mikilv\u00e6gi \u00feess a\u00f0 hafa jafnv\u00e6gi milli vinnu-hv\u00edldar-helgihalds-fr\u00edt\u00edma. H\u00fan nefndi til s\u00f6gunnar nunnureglu sem skiptir t\u00edma s\u00ednum \u00ed fernt, sex t\u00edmar \u00e1 s\u00f3larhring fari \u00ed hvern \u00fe\u00e1tt.<\/p>\n \u00de\u00e1 er mikilv\u00e6gt a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 n\u00fdtum okkur \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 unglingar hafa oft ekkert a\u00f0 gera – en fullt a\u00f0 gefa.<\/p>\n Lokaor\u00f0 Graham Glay<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00cd samantekt sinni \u00ed lok r\u00e1\u00f0stefnunnar kalla\u00f0i Graham Glay, \u00e6skul\u00fd\u00f0sfulltr\u00faa til a\u00f0 vera br\u00faarsmi\u00f0i, sem br\u00fau\u00f0u gj\u00e1na milli kirkju samt\u00edmans og unga f\u00f3lksins. \u00dea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri kirkjunni nau\u00f0syn a\u00f0 finna lei\u00f0 til a\u00f0 bj\u00f3\u00f0a ungt f\u00f3lk inn \u00ed kirkjuna.<\/p>\n Spjallstund um stu\u00f0ning<\/strong> <\/p>\n Fyrra spjalli\u00f0 sem \u00e9g t\u00f3k \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed fjalla\u00f0i um mikilv\u00e6gi \u00feess a\u00f0 hafa virkan stu\u00f0ning jafnt til a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 heimilisl\u00edfi\u00f0, vinnuna og tr\u00faarl\u00edfi\u00f0. Greint var \u00e1 milli tvenns konar stu\u00f0nings, annars vegar jafningastu\u00f0nings (peer-support) og hins vegar r\u00e1\u00f0gjafar (counsultary). \u00cd h\u00f3pnum sem \u00e9g settist \u00ed var\u00f0 nokkur umr\u00e6\u00f0a um mikilv\u00e6gi \u00feess a\u00f0 geta greint \u00e1 milli ofangreindra \u00fe\u00e1tta (heimilis\/vinnu\/tr\u00faarl\u00edfs). Spurningar um andlega uppbyggingu \u00feess sem s\u00edfellt er a\u00f0 vinna a\u00f0 helgihaldi og m\u00f6guleika til byggja sj\u00e1lfan sig upp tr\u00faarlega \u00ed vinnunni voru me\u00f0al \u00feess sem r\u00e6tt var.<\/p>\n Spjallstund um hagn\u00fdt m\u00e1lefni<\/strong><\/p>\n S\u00ed\u00f0ara spjalli\u00f0 var um hagn\u00fdt m\u00e1lefni, en 1999 var sett \u00e1 stofn skrifstofa til a\u00f0 annast r\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6f til \u00e6skul\u00fd\u00f0slei\u00f0toga um lagaleg \u00e1litam\u00e1l tengd starfinu og eins um kjaram\u00e1l. Starfsma\u00f0ur skrifstofunnar bau\u00f0 upp \u00e1 spjall um sl\u00edk m\u00e1l. \u00dear var \u00e1hugavert a\u00f0 heyra a\u00f0 starfsumhverfi kirkjustarfsmanna \u00e1 Englandi er um margt l\u00edkt \u00edslenskum a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um. \u00d3lj\u00f3st vinnuumhverfi, illa unnar starfsl\u00fdsingar (e\u00f0a engar) og fl\u00f3kin \u00e1kvar\u00f0anataka eru daglegt brau\u00f0 fj\u00f6lmargra lei\u00f0toga \u00e1 Bretlandseyjum. Umr\u00e6\u00f0an snerist nokku\u00f0 um l\u00ed\u00f0an starfsf\u00f3lks vi\u00f0 sl\u00edkar a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur og mikilv\u00e6gi gagnkv\u00e6ms stu\u00f0nings.<\/p>\n Me\u00f0al endingart\u00edmi \u00e6skul\u00fd\u00f0sfulltr\u00faa \u00e1 Bretlandseyjum er 18-24 m\u00e1nu\u00f0ir. \u00c1st\u00e6\u00f0an a\u00f0 hluta s\u00fa a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 starfa fyrir Krist er tengt \u00f6llum \u00f6\u00f0rum \u00fe\u00e1ttum \u00ed l\u00edfi okkar, starfinu fylgja miklar tilfinningar, okkur er ekki sama.<\/p>\n Vinnuh\u00f3pur um \u00f6flun og vi\u00f0hald sj\u00e1lfbo\u00f0ali\u00f0a<\/strong> <\/p>\n Bo\u00f0i\u00f0 var upp \u00e1 vinnuh\u00f3p um \u00f6flun og vi\u00f0hald sj\u00e1lfbo\u00f0ali\u00f0a. Uppbyggingin var \u00fe\u00f3 l\u00edkari fyrirlestri enda \u00e1 6. tug lei\u00f0toga \u00e1 samverunni. Me\u00f0al \u00feess sem fram kom og \u00e9g vissi svo sem var a\u00f0 hvatningin er pr\u00edmus-m\u00f3tor \u00ed sj\u00e1lfbo\u00f0ali\u00f0astarfi. \u00deannig r\u00e6ddi umsj\u00f3narma\u00f0urinn um a\u00f0 \u00feegar hvatinn til starfa yr\u00f0i minni en daglegt stress sj\u00e1lfbo\u00f0ali\u00f0ans myndi hann flj\u00f3tt l\u00e1ta sig hverfa. \u00c1hersla var l\u00f6g\u00f0 \u00e1 a\u00f0 s\u00edna sj\u00e1lfbo\u00f0ali\u00f0unum \u00ed heild \u00e1huga en ekki bara \u00feeim verkefnum sem \u00feeir sinna. Vara\u00f0 var vi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 augl\u00fdsa eftir sj\u00e1lfbo\u00f0ali\u00f0um. Bent var \u00e1 a\u00f0 senda pers\u00f3nuleg br\u00e9f til \u00feeirra sem kynnu a\u00f0 henta, leyfa vi\u00f0komandi a\u00f0 hugsa m\u00e1li\u00f0 og bj\u00f3\u00f0a \u00e1 fund e.t.v. tveimur vikum s\u00ed\u00f0ar \u00fear sem verkefni\u00f0 yr\u00f0i kynnt frekar.<\/p>\n \u00cdtreka\u00f0 var a\u00f0 r\u00e1\u00f0ningarsamningur og starfsmannavi\u00f0t\u00f6l eru skylda \u00ed Bretlandi ef vi\u00f0komandi sj\u00e1lfbo\u00f0ali\u00f0ar koma til me\u00f0 a\u00f0 starfa me\u00f0 b\u00f6rnum (barnaverndarl\u00f6g).<\/p>\n \u00de\u00e1 v\u00e6ri mikilv\u00e6gt a\u00f0 hafa starfi\u00f0 \u00e1berandi, myndir \u00e1 veggjum, fr\u00e9ttir \u00ed fr\u00e9ttabr\u00e9fi o.s.frv.<\/p>\n Mikilv\u00e6gt er a\u00f0 launa\u00f0ur starfsma\u00f0ur gefi s\u00e9r a.m.k. jafn mikinn t\u00edma me\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfbo\u00f0ali\u00f0unu \u00de\u00e1 kalla\u00f0i fyrirlesarinn eftir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 fyrir og eftir hvern fund v\u00e6ri samstarfsfundur me\u00f0 starfsf\u00f3lki, annars vegar til a\u00f0 bi\u00f0ja fyrir og fara yfir \u00fea\u00f0 sem gera \u00e1, hins vegar mat (debriefing) \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed hvernig til t\u00f3kst og b\u00e6nastund fyrir starfsf\u00f3lki \u00ed komandi viku. Sl\u00edkar samstarfsstundir s\u00e9u mikilv\u00e6gari en lengd vi\u00f0vera me\u00f0 unglingunum\/b\u00f6rnunum. Mikilv\u00e6gast s\u00e9 a\u00f0 t\u00edminn me\u00f0 b\u00f6rnunum s\u00e9 vel skipulag\u00f0ur, ekki s\u00e9 atri\u00f0i a\u00f0 hann s\u00e9 endilega sem lengstur.<\/p>\n \u00de\u00e1 benti fyrirlesarinn \u00e1 mikilv\u00e6gi \u00feess a\u00f0 byggja sk\u00fdrslur um starfi\u00f0 upp \u00e1 fr\u00e1s\u00f6gum og myndum en ekki t\u00f6lfr\u00e6\u00f0ilegum uppl\u00fdsingum. Umr\u00e6\u00f0a var\u00f0 um hvort myndataka af b\u00f6rnum\/unglingum \u00ed kirkjustarfi\/kristilegu starfi v\u00e6ri brott \u00e1 fri\u00f0helgi einkal\u00edfsins en sl\u00edk umr\u00e6\u00f0a hefur vakna\u00f0 \u00ed Bretlandi \u00ed kj\u00f6lfar n\u00fdrra barnaverndarlaga.<\/p>\n Bent var \u00e1 mikilv\u00e6gi \u00feess a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfbo\u00f0ali\u00f0ar f\u00e1i t\u00e6kif\u00e6ri til a\u00f0 s\u00e6kja n\u00e1mskei\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed svi\u00f0i sem \u00feeir sj\u00e1lfir hafa \u00e1huga \u00e1, en ekki a\u00f0eins \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed sem hentar f\u00e9laginu\/kirkjunni. Hugmynd kom upp a\u00f0 hafa starfsmannan\u00e1mskei\u00f0 \u00e1 fundart\u00edma, fella fundinn ni\u00f0ur og \u00fatsk\u00fdra fyrir b\u00f6rnum\/unglingum og foreldrum a\u00f0 starfsf\u00f3lki\u00f0 s\u00e9 a\u00f0 mennta sig til a\u00f0 geta bo\u00f0i\u00f0 upp \u00e1 enn betri dagskr\u00e1. Jafnvel a\u00f0 hafa \u00e1rlegan starfsdag alls starfsf\u00f3lksins.<\/p>\n Velt var upp spurningum um tr\u00faaruppbyggingu lei\u00f0toga, s\u00e9r \u00ed lagi ef tr\u00faargrunnur lei\u00f0toga er EKKI sterkur. Hvort h\u00e6gt s\u00e9 a\u00f0 senda lei\u00f0toga og unglinga saman \u00e1 veginn til \u00feekkingar \u00e1 Kristi.<\/p>\n Mikilv\u00e6gi \u00feess a\u00f0 r\u00e1\u00f0ningarsamningur\/erindisbr\u00e9f innihaldi hversu mikinn t\u00edma er veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00f3ska eftir, fundart\u00edma og t\u00edma til mats, fj\u00f6lda samvera \u00e1 \u00e1ri og helgarfer\u00f0ir. \u00deannig a\u00f0 \u00f6llum s\u00e9 lj\u00f3st hva\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfbo\u00f0ali\u00f0arnir eru a\u00f0 bj\u00f3\u00f0a sig fram til. H\u00e6gt er a\u00f0 gera sl\u00edka samninga vi\u00f0 eldra starfsf\u00f3lks me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 v\u00edsa til Barnaverndarlaga og\/e\u00f0a me\u00f0 v\u00edsun til starfsmannatrygginga.<\/p>\n Nau\u00f0synlegt er a\u00f0 starfsf\u00f3lk s\u00e9 teki\u00f0 reglulega fram til fyrirb\u00e6nar \u00ed s\u00f6fnu\u00f0inum.<\/p>\n Vinnuh\u00f3pur um a\u00f0 n\u00e1 til 11-14 \u00e1ra<\/strong><\/p>\n Kirkjan \u00e1 Bretlandi hefur l\u00e1ti\u00f0 rannsaka \u00fe\u00e1ttt\u00f6ku svokalla\u00f0ra “Tweenagers\u0094 (between child and teenagers – 11-14 \u00e1ra) \u00ed gu\u00f0s\u00fej\u00f3nustustarfi, en \u00fe\u00e1tttaka \u00feeirra hefur dregist g\u00edfurlega saman. Vangaveltur eru um a\u00f0 virkja afa og \u00f6mmu til a\u00f0 taka b\u00f6rnin me\u00f0. Vandam\u00e1lin felast \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 kirkjur eru hanna\u00f0ar fyrir fullvaxna, bekkir og t\u00e1knmyndir t.d. Vi\u00f0 \u00feurfum a\u00f0 spyrja hvar vill unga f\u00f3lki\u00f0 vera og hva\u00f0 viljum vi\u00f0 gera? Frekari umfj\u00f6llun um ranns\u00f3knina og st\u00f6\u00f0u \u00feessa aldursh\u00f3ps er \u00ed b\u00f3kinni Reaching and Kepping Tweenagers sem \u00e9g hef fest kaup \u00e1 og h\u00e6gt er a\u00f0 n\u00e1lgast \u00ed vinnunni minni.<\/p>\n Vinnuh\u00f3pur um a\u00f0 virkja ungt f\u00f3lk<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00c9g t\u00f3k einnig \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed h\u00f3pi um hvernig m\u00e1 virkja ungt f\u00f3lk til starfa. \u00dear var fjalla\u00f0 um samspil \u00e1byrg\u00f0ar og valda. \u00ddmsar ranns\u00f3knir og vangaveltur sem kynntar voru m\u00e1 finna \u00ed b\u00f3kinni Inspiration sem \u00e9g keypti og h\u00e6gt er a\u00f0 f\u00e1 l\u00e1na\u00f0a hj\u00e1 m\u00e9r.<\/p>\n Vinnuh\u00f3pur um tr\u00faarl\u00edf \/ andlegt l\u00edf ungs f\u00f3lks<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00dear var r\u00e6tt um \u00feann vanda sem blasir vi\u00f0 kristilegu starfi a\u00f0 ungt f\u00f3lk er oft \u00e1 t\u00ed\u00f0um andlega \u00feenkjandi en tengir \u00fe\u00e1 \u00feanka ekki vi\u00f0 kristilegt starf, \u00fear sem s\u00e9r \u00ed lagi kirkjan s\u00e9 st\u00f6\u00f0nu\u00f0 og hafi ekki upp \u00e1 neitt a\u00f0 bj\u00f3\u00f0a. A\u00f0 lokinni r\u00e1\u00f0stefnu keypti \u00e9g Nick Hornby: How To Be Good, en \u00fear l\u00fdsir Hornby \u00feessum veruleika mj\u00f6g vel. Kirkjan \u00fearf a\u00f0 skilja mikilv\u00e6gi \u00feess a\u00f0 vera EPIC (Experience, Participative, Image Driven, Connected). Kirkjan er \u00fea\u00f0 reyndar, en \u00fearf a\u00f0 muna \u00fea\u00f0 l\u00edka. H\u00e6tta margra er a\u00f0 upplifa en missa af merkingu (T.S. Elliot), kannski vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 tenginguna vantar (samf\u00e9lagi\u00f0).<\/p>\n Umfj\u00f6llun \u00ed \u00feessum vinnuh\u00f3p var um margt \u00e1hugaver\u00f0 og \u00e1kall til okkar um a\u00f0 finna lei\u00f0ir til a\u00f0 gera bo\u00f0skapinn um Krist, veruleika \u00ed heiminum sem vi\u00f0 lifum \u00ed en ekki a\u00f0eins forna hugmynd um g\u00f3\u00f0an g\u00e6ja.<\/p>\n \u00ddmsir a\u00f0rir \u00feankar<\/strong><\/p>\n R\u00e1\u00f0stefnan kalla\u00f0i fram margv\u00edslega \u00feanka, margt er skr\u00e1\u00f0 h\u00e9r a\u00f0 ofan anna\u00f0 ekki. Nokkrir samhengislausir punktar eru \u00feessir:<\/p>\n R\u00e1\u00f0ningarsamningar \u00ed kirkjunni og hj\u00e1 f\u00e9lagasamt\u00f6kum \u00feurfa a\u00f0 n\u00e1 til allra: K\u00f3rs, organista, kirkjuvar\u00f0ar, me\u00f0hj\u00e1lpara, s\u00f3knarnefndar, \u00f6ldrunarstarfs, h\u00fasm\u00f3\u00f0ur safna\u00f0arheimilis, sj\u00e1lfbo\u00f0ali\u00f0a \u00ed \u00e6skul\u00fd\u00f0sstarfi o.s.frv \u00de\u00e1 er \u00fe\u00f6rf \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 markmi\u00f0 og stefna f\u00e9lagsins\/kirkjunnar s\u00e9u s\u00fdnileg, t.d. \u00ed ramma uppi \u00e1 vegg.<\/p>\n Af hverju launa\u00f0 starfsf\u00f3lk? Til a\u00f0 minnka \u00e1lag sj\u00e1lfbo\u00f0ali\u00f0a, vinna a\u00f0 langt\u00edmamarkmi\u00f0um, innra eftirlit \u00ed s\u00f6fnu\u00f0i (f\u00e9lagi).<\/p>\n Lokaor\u00f0<\/strong> <\/p>\n \u00dea\u00f0 var margt a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra \u00e1 stuttum t\u00edma \u00e1 Matrix r\u00e1\u00f0stefnunni. Margt var sagt sem \u00e9g vissi ekki a\u00f0 \u00e9g vissi. Anna\u00f0 sem \u00e9g vissi a\u00f0 \u00e9g vissi og loks \u00fdmislegt sem \u00e9g haf\u00f0i ekki leitt hugann a\u00f0. Sl\u00edkar r\u00e1\u00f0stefnur hj\u00e1lpa til vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 „f\u00f3kusa“ \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sem skiptir m\u00e1li og minna \u00e1 hva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er sem skiptir m\u00e1li.<\/p>\n Af \u00feeim s\u00f6kum vil \u00e9g \u00feakka stj\u00f3rn Landssambandsins fyrir a\u00f0 au\u00f0velda m\u00e9r a\u00f0 s\u00e6kja \u00feessa r\u00e1\u00f0stefnu. \u00c9g vona a\u00f0 \u00feessir punktar n\u00fdtist starfsf\u00f3lki \u00ed \u00e6skul\u00fd\u00f0sstarfi KFUM og KFUK og kirkjunnar til huglei\u00f0inga.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00cd lok jan\u00faar 2003 f\u00f3r \u00e9g \u00e1 r\u00e1\u00f0stefnu fyrir \u00e6skul\u00fd\u00f0sfulltr\u00faa sem var haldin \u00ed High Leigh Christian Conference Centre \u00ed Englandi. P\u00e9tur Bj\u00f6rgvin vildi heyra meira um r\u00e1\u00f0stefnuna og \u00fev\u00ed skelli \u00e9g \u00fe\u00f6nkum m\u00ednum h\u00e9r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wds_primary_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[29,95],"class_list":["post-21","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-islenska","tag-church","tag-kfumk"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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\nog b\u00f6rnunum\/unglingunum. Bent var \u00e1 mikilv\u00e6gi pers\u00f3nulegra funda.<\/p>\n