{"id":1178,"date":"2008-01-28T16:57:42","date_gmt":"2008-01-28T16:57:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/elli.annall.is\/2008-01-28\/hinir-utvoldu\/"},"modified":"2008-01-28T16:57:42","modified_gmt":"2008-01-28T16:57:42","slug":"hinir-utvoldu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ispeculate.net\/writings\/2008\/01\/28\/hinir-utvoldu\/","title":{"rendered":"Hinir \u00fatv\u00f6ldu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c9g \u00e1tti \u00e1hugavert samtal milli j\u00f3la og n\u00fd\u00e1rs \u00e1 \u00cdslandi vi\u00f0 ungan gu\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0ing me\u00f0 BA-gr\u00e1\u00f0u fr\u00e1 Gu\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0ideild H\u00cd sem l\u00fdsti fyrir m\u00e9r hvernig \u00fea\u00f0 hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 stunda n\u00e1m \u00ed deildinni. Vi\u00f0komandi \u00feekkti engin deili \u00e1 m\u00e9r, a\u00f0 \u00e9g held, og \u00fatsk\u00fdr\u00f0i hvernig innan h\u00e1sk\u00f3ladeildarinnar hef\u00f0u veri\u00f0 tvenns konar f\u00f3lk. Annars vegar ungir str\u00e1kar sem komu \u00far kirkjuumhverfinu og\/e\u00f0a KFUM&amp;KFUK, me\u00f0 endalausa reynslu \u00far starfi kirkjunnar. Str\u00e1kar sem seg\u00f0u skemmtis\u00f6gur af prestunum, vinum s\u00ednum, h\u00e9ldu \u00fati korti me\u00f0 uppl\u00fdsingum um laus prestak\u00f6ll og hlunnindi og v\u00e6ru uppfullir af sj\u00e1lfs\u00f6ryggi og vissu um hva\u00f0 framt\u00ed\u00f0in b\u00e6ri \u00ed skauti s\u00e9r. \u00de\u00e6r v\u00e6ru enda sumir me\u00f0 vinnu \u00ed kirkjunni me\u00f0 n\u00e1mi og hef\u00f0u sterkt tengslanet inn \u00ed kirkjustofnunina. S\u00ed\u00f0an v\u00e6ru \u00fea\u00f0 hinir.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9g hef svo sem heyrt \u00feessar l\u00fdsingar \u00e1\u00f0ur, b\u00e6\u00f0i fr\u00e1 eldra f\u00f3lki en m\u00e9r og \u00e9g heyr\u00f0i \u00e1 t\u00ed\u00f0um svona athugasemdir um mig og f\u00e9laga m\u00edna \u00ed deildinni.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dea\u00f0 sem hins vegar snerti mig \u00e1 n\u00fdjan h\u00e1tt a\u00f0 \u00feessu sinni er a\u00f0 str\u00e1karnir (\u00fev\u00ed mest eru \u00feetta karlmenn) hafa allflestir snertifl\u00f6t vi\u00f0 <strong>mig<\/strong>, veri\u00f0 \u00e1 n\u00e1mskei\u00f0um hj\u00e1 <strong>m\u00e9r<\/strong>, lesi\u00f0 handb\u00e6kur sem <strong>\u00e9g<\/strong> hef skrifa\u00f0, lesa ann\u00e1linn <strong>minn<\/strong> reglulega og hafa spjalla\u00f0 vi\u00f0 <strong>mig<\/strong> um heima og geima m\u00f6rg kv\u00f6ld og margar n\u00e6tur \u00ed Vatnask\u00f3gi. \u00deannig var\u00f0 samtal mitt og gu\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0ingsins ekki einv\u00f6r\u00f0ungu \u00e1hugavert \u00ed lj\u00f3si \u00feess a\u00f0 deildin hefur l\u00edti\u00f0 breyst \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir &#8220;n\u00fdja&#8221; gu\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0i KFUM&amp;KFUK str\u00e1kanna, heldur hvernig or\u00f0 gu\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0ingsins voru \u00ed raun \u00e1fellisd\u00f3mur yfir m\u00e9r og \u00feeirra starfa sem \u00e9g hef sinnt \u00ed lei\u00f0togauppbyggingu hj\u00e1 kirkjunni og KFUM&amp;KFUK.<\/p>\n<p>Einn \u00fe\u00e1ttur \u00feessa samtals var s\u00e9r \u00ed lagi \u00e1hugaver\u00f0ur, en \u00fea\u00f0 var spurningin um a\u00f0gengi a\u00f0 kirkjunni fyrir gu\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0inema sem er ekki tilb\u00fain til a\u00f0 vinna \u00ed barna- og\/e\u00f0a unglingastarfi. B\u00fd\u00f0ur kirkjan upp \u00e1 lei\u00f0ir fyrir ungt f\u00f3lk til a\u00f0 mynda tengslanet ef \u00feau hafa ekki \u00e1huga \u00e1 a\u00f0 vinna me\u00f0 b\u00f6rnum. Er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 eiga prest fyrir vin ef \u00fe\u00fa ert ekki virk\/ur \u00ed barna- og unglingastarfi kirkjunnar?<\/p>\n<p>Ef gu\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0ingurinn hef\u00f0i \u00feekkt til m\u00edn hef\u00f0i \u00feessi umr\u00e6\u00f0a l\u00edklegast aldrei \u00e1tt s\u00e9r sta\u00f0, enda var svo \u00feegar \u00e9g spur\u00f0i um nafngreinda einstaklinga og sag\u00f0ist hafa teki\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed \u00fej\u00e1lfun \u00feeirra og st\u00fdrt \u00feeim m.a. \u00ed Vatnask\u00f3gi, a\u00f0 gu\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0ingnum var nokku\u00f0 brug\u00f0i\u00f0 og taldi sig e.t.v. hafa gengi\u00f0 of langt \u00ed gagnr\u00fdni sinni enda v\u00e6ru \u00feeir flestallir \u00farvalsmenn einir og s\u00e9r, \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri andinn \u00ed h\u00f3pnum sem v\u00e6ri vandam\u00e1li\u00f0.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9g held \u00e9g hafi ekki fari\u00f0 \u00ed v\u00f6rn \u00ed umr\u00e6\u00f0unni, \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 \u00e9g upplif\u00f0i gagnr\u00fdnina mj\u00f6g pers\u00f3nulega, s\u00e9r \u00ed lagi \u00ed lj\u00f3si \u00feess a\u00f0 vi\u00f0m\u00e6landi minn vissi ekki hver \u00e9g var a\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0ru leiti en \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri \u00ed framhaldsn\u00e1mi \u00ed gu\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0i. \u00dev\u00ed var ekki um \u00f6grun a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a hj\u00e1 vi\u00f0m\u00e6landanum til a\u00f0 kalla mig til r\u00f6kr\u00e6\u00f0na eins og \u00e9g hef oft \u00e1 t\u00ed\u00f0um upplifa\u00f0 \u00feessa gagnr\u00fdni. \u00devert \u00e1 m\u00f3ti, um var a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a einl\u00e6gar \u00e1hyggjur og allt a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed sorg yfir \u00fev\u00ed hvernig hlutum v\u00e6ri h\u00e1tta\u00f0.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c9g \u00e1tti \u00e1hugavert samtal milli j\u00f3la og n\u00fd\u00e1rs \u00e1 \u00cdslandi vi\u00f0 ungan gu\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0ing me\u00f0 BA-gr\u00e1\u00f0u fr\u00e1 Gu\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0ideild H\u00cd sem l\u00fdsti fyrir m\u00e9r hvernig \u00fea\u00f0 hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 stunda n\u00e1m \u00ed deildinni. Vi\u00f0komandi \u00feekkti engin deili \u00e1 m\u00e9r, a\u00f0 \u00e9g held, og \u00fatsk\u00fdr\u00f0i hvernig innan h\u00e1sk\u00f3ladeildarinnar hef\u00f0u veri\u00f0 tvenns konar f\u00f3lk. 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